Chapter II
Before uttering a single word, the just think of one thing:
- She's a beautiful girl, and you have gotten a chance to meet her, you can't be the only luckiest guy to have met her. Obviously, if she is single (let's assume), then why would not every guy who is already around her be sparing such a chance. And that would be:
- Her friends from college.
- Guys who claim to be in love with her for centuries.
- The guys who have been just secretly waiting for this day when she breaks up with her
boyfriend. They have all their scripts and wooing tricks, all prepared.
- Guys, she believes, who are her best friends and will never hit on her - even if the world comes to an end and they are the last two people alive. But they do.
- Guys who are taking help from their best female friends to woo her. They are equally threatening because the female friends are always talking about them, and setting up dates and meetings.
This is the competition for a college girl who has just broken up with her boyfriend. Now, what's the difference between you and them? (Yes, you and 'them' are just two people). If you must think closely, even though they are all different guys, their ways of approaching and hitting on her are same: to woo the recently broken up college girl. What they do is, just in the beginning of their conquest, at some part, trying to be either very smart or indirect, they will show the girl - by giving her signs, or doing unnecessary favours, by cracking extra lame jokes because they want to be close, by asking her number too soon, or by playing James Bond - that they want to woo her, and eventually lose her to someone else. But put together they all will do the same thing in ten thousand ways. So, how do you do this same thing differently? By not doing it! That is all it takes to show her that you are different.
Result: Never show a girl that you are interested in her; on the contrary, don't even be neutral, show her that you are not interested in her. This way she'd unconsciously want to be with you because you are cool, and you are different from every other guy who is doing the same thing in ten thousand ways. She would consciously feel safe in your company too.
What to do in the first meeting?
Here are the things you should do when you are unsure about the women type and her psychology:
- Remain silent
- Never open your mouth over the limit that your teeth become the only entertainment for the day.
- Reply to her questions normally, and remain shut, cool, and calm.
- If she in quires about your life, which she will out of common courtesy, you end the reply with the shortest and smartest choice of words or you answer her with a question. (That’s what you have to do)
Girl: So, what do you do?
You: I study in Xx College
(Expected answer)
or
You: I need like...MM... 10 more years to figure that out.
(Smart answer, but it has its flaws. It's like punching yourself; it can make a girl laugh, but if she is a pseudo-intellectual or a careerist, it may seem to her that you are a loser)
or
You: Ah! No one wants to know that. Tell me about what you do?
(Now that is a perfect distraction technique and a good conversation making move. Always remember, women love talking about themselves, and if you are amusingly listening to them and praising them at their every single word, you are sure to enter in their good books)
Chapter II
Before uttering a single word, the just think of one thing:
- She's a beautiful girl, and you have gotten a chance to meet her, you can't be the only luckiest guy to have met her. Obviously, if she is single (let's assume), then why would not every guy who is already around her be sparing such a chance. And that would be:
- Her friends from college.
- Guys who claim to be in love with her for centuries.
- The guys who have been just secretly waiting for this day when she breaks up with her
boyfriend. They have all their scripts and wooing tricks, all prepared.
- Guys, she believes, who are her best friends and will never hit on her - even if the world comes to an end and they are the last two people alive. But they do.
- Guys who are taking help from their best female friends to woo her. They are equally threatening because the female friends are always talking about them, and setting up dates and meetings.
This is the competition for a college girl who has just broken up with her boyfriend. Now, what's the difference between you and them? (Yes, you and 'them' are just two people). If you must think closely, even though they are all different guys, their ways of approaching and hitting on her are same: to woo the recently broken up college girl. What they do is, just in the beginning of their conquest, at some part, trying to be either very smart or indirect, they will show the girl - by giving her signs, or doing unnecessary favours, by cracking extra lame jokes because they want to be close, by asking her number too soon, or by playing James Bond - that they want to woo her, and eventually lose her to someone else. But put together they all will do the same thing in ten thousand ways. So, how do you do this same thing differently? By not doing it! That is all it takes to show her that you are different.
Result: Never show a girl that you are interested in her; on the contrary, don't even be neutral, show her that you are not interested in her. This way she'd unconsciously want to be with you because you are cool, and you are different from every other guy who is doing the same thing in ten thousand ways. She would consciously feel safe in your company too.
What to do in the first meeting?
Here are the things you should do when you are unsure about the women type and her psychology:
- Remain silent
- Never open your mouth over the limit that your teeth become the only entertainment for the day.
- Reply to her questions normally, and remain shut, cool, and calm.
- If she in quires about your life, which she will out of common courtesy, you end the reply with the shortest and smartest choice of words or you answer her with a question. (That’s what you have to do)
Girl: So, what do you do?
You: I study in Xx College
(Expected answer)
or
You: I need like...MM... 10 more years to figure that out.
(Smart answer, but it has its flaws. It's like punching yourself; it can make a girl laugh, but if she is a pseudo-intellectual or a careerist, it may seem to her that you are a loser)
or
You: Ah! No one wants to know that. Tell me about what you do?
(Now that is a perfect distraction technique and a good conversation making move. Always remember, women love talking about themselves, and if you are amusingly listening to them and praising them at their every single word, you are sure to enter in their good books)
Chapter II
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