The other age group consists of girls between 19-22 years old. This age group represents an age of transformation from one level to another. Some of the basic terms that enter into their lives during this age gap are:
- Realism
- Change in ends
- Experiences
The first two terms only acquire a meaning because of the third term – experiences. During the time a girl touches the age of 19, one of the following things has happened to most of them:
- She has had a break up by now.
- She has had many break ups by now.
- She has been betrayed by her friends, so she calls them names.
- She maintains that she knows a lot about life now, as she has shed enough tears. So she
wants to focus in her career.
The basic mindset or attributes of the girls between the ages 19-22 is something like:
- A portion of girls become less ambitious, due to the past bitter experiences in relationships.
Note: By ambitions, I mean the materialistic ones, like car, gadgets or money. They don’t condemn the idea of love, even though they pretend to, and are very reluctant towards relationships as they don’t wish the same story to repeat again.
- A portion of girls adopt and swiftly convert these past bitter incidents into a normal lifestyle. For example: Those who frequently change lovers. They are usually inspired by some idea that it is cool to do so, which they receive from different sources of entertainment like Sitcoms, movies, friends etc.
- This is also an age of introspection. Many girls make a decision of what they want to do in their lives, and involve themselves in a genre of studies. Such girls are generally into strong relationships. They are least ambitious materialistically in finding a guy. They usually fall for the creative types, but it is not necessarily so too. Such type of girls are not in abundance, but not too rare.
- The idea of love is not too bright and pure anymore.
- Her definition/ description about the perfect guy changes and now sounds much more realistic.
- A portion of girls continue to stay in relationships with their lovers from school or schooldays.
What do they want?
When this question drops on the girls between the ages 19 to 22, they, in a very broad manner, get divided into two types:
- Love is the prime interest of their lives, and career is secondary. The major outbursts or incidents are love-based. (Career in most cases, is for namesake)
- Those which are much focused and equally fond of love. But, unknowingly, love is secondary in their lives.
The girls between the ages 19 to 22 start to get a little attracted towards the basic idea of living called stability. They don’t actually run after big cars or chase rich guys. They get attracted towards the idea of a good and comfortable life, which leads them towards the types of guys who are either doing well in their studies, or are very creative etc. This is somewhat a mixture of choice and satisfaction because in many ways even love doesn’t lose its purity and place. Note: I am not saying that they get washed away with their juvenile instincts & wants. Many of them do get attracted towards glamour and glitz shown by guys, and make mistakes. To sum up, what girls of this age want is an insurance plan. All you need to show them is a perfectly blossoming future or at least the idea of it, and fit yourself into the role of perfect man she imagines or craves to achieve.
How do you find out what type of guy is she looking for? Is it important?
Yes, it’s very important; and the answers to similar questions will be discussed in the coming chapters.
- Realism
- Change in ends
- Experiences
The first two terms only acquire a meaning because of the third term – experiences. During the time a girl touches the age of 19, one of the following things has happened to most of them:
- She has had a break up by now.
- She has had many break ups by now.
- She has been betrayed by her friends, so she calls them names.
- She maintains that she knows a lot about life now, as she has shed enough tears. So she
wants to focus in her career.
The basic mindset or attributes of the girls between the ages 19-22 is something like:
- A portion of girls become less ambitious, due to the past bitter experiences in relationships.
Note: By ambitions, I mean the materialistic ones, like car, gadgets or money. They don’t condemn the idea of love, even though they pretend to, and are very reluctant towards relationships as they don’t wish the same story to repeat again.
- A portion of girls adopt and swiftly convert these past bitter incidents into a normal lifestyle. For example: Those who frequently change lovers. They are usually inspired by some idea that it is cool to do so, which they receive from different sources of entertainment like Sitcoms, movies, friends etc.
- This is also an age of introspection. Many girls make a decision of what they want to do in their lives, and involve themselves in a genre of studies. Such girls are generally into strong relationships. They are least ambitious materialistically in finding a guy. They usually fall for the creative types, but it is not necessarily so too. Such type of girls are not in abundance, but not too rare.
- The idea of love is not too bright and pure anymore.
- Her definition/ description about the perfect guy changes and now sounds much more realistic.
- A portion of girls continue to stay in relationships with their lovers from school or schooldays.
What do they want?
When this question drops on the girls between the ages 19 to 22, they, in a very broad manner, get divided into two types:
- Love is the prime interest of their lives, and career is secondary. The major outbursts or incidents are love-based. (Career in most cases, is for namesake)
- Those which are much focused and equally fond of love. But, unknowingly, love is secondary in their lives.
The girls between the ages 19 to 22 start to get a little attracted towards the basic idea of living called stability. They don’t actually run after big cars or chase rich guys. They get attracted towards the idea of a good and comfortable life, which leads them towards the types of guys who are either doing well in their studies, or are very creative etc. This is somewhat a mixture of choice and satisfaction because in many ways even love doesn’t lose its purity and place. Note: I am not saying that they get washed away with their juvenile instincts & wants. Many of them do get attracted towards glamour and glitz shown by guys, and make mistakes. To sum up, what girls of this age want is an insurance plan. All you need to show them is a perfectly blossoming future or at least the idea of it, and fit yourself into the role of perfect man she imagines or craves to achieve.
How do you find out what type of guy is she looking for? Is it important?
Yes, it’s very important; and the answers to similar questions will be discussed in the coming chapters.
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