How to make a girl say I love you to you first

How do we find the perfect time to say I love you?


This is a big problem that guys keep wondering about and take random chances with. When is the right time? Guys get inspired from movies/ sitcoms/ sources that a person should be random and just say it on her
face. But to be very honest, she is only a human being, and if she is a friend - considering that you are going to say I love you to her then you may have some sort of friendship cooking between you two - it's easy to get it out of her just by signals.

The biggest mistake of guys is that they become random! If you are reading this -- Don't do it. Up to 70% of guys get rejected because of being random and spontaneous. If you have a friendship, my advice would be:

- Strengthen the relationship.
- Try to find if there is any competition.
- Try to see if she is over her ex- boyfriend.
- Observe what kind of relationship and influence her ex-boyfriend has over her.
- Find about her male friends, see the depth of their relationships.
- Make friends with her female friends, and if you can, tell them they are really cute and you want to adopt them as your little sister. (it has mighty points for you)
- Talk to her as much as you can. Try to be a part of her routine.
- Try to know as many secrets as you can of her, through her, or from somebody else.
- Hang out with her as much as you can.
- Connect on social networking sites, and be funny not annoying.
- Make her friends with your friends, so whenever she meets them, or talks to them , all they do is show how great you are!

While doing all of this, stuff that you have to take care of:
- Don't start spending money on her. Show her that you have got money (optional), but don't start spending it lavishly.
- If you are doing any favor, or helping her with something, always observe the end of it, -- is the material gain, or if you are just being used as a cattle, or if it's something so important that she'd be grateful. Choose the last one only.
- Don't ever stop her from being friends with anyone, if you want to do that, choose any friend of yours, (only if you have followed my last advice from the above list), and make him say the most hateful things about the guy you want to cut off from her.

Now if you do this much properly, I can bet she'd secretly fall for you any day, and you'd know about it easily through her friends, who apparently are your cute little adopted sisters!