What does she really mean by these Chapter II

Chapter II


"I need my space."

This statement is generally said in two contexts - one, when she is speaking in relation to her boyfriend; and second, when you are her boyfriend and she is saying it to you. In the first scenario, when she is saying this in relation to her boyfriend, immediately get his: there are high chances of their break up and
her boyfriend won't be the one to initiate it. If you are ever talking to a girl, and even mistakenly hear this statement, just know she is looking for a replacement.
If you tell her this, she may not talk to you, and hate you for mentioning such an impossible event (breaking up with her boyfriend). She will, till her last breath, admit that she is in deep love with her boyfriend; so the question you are supposed to ask her is this - Why do you need space? Or what makes you think he doesn't give you your space?

The point is that you just need to press on to the conversation regarding her certain statement so you can exactly figure out what her situation is! Now there are exactly five types of girl situations when they say 'I need my space’:
- Girls who face a lot of problems; for example: domestic violence, extreme guilt due to past experiences, passing away of a loved one, and similar stuff.
- Girls who are smarter than their boyfriends.
- Girls who are overly bold and confident, and authoritative. (I am not saying smart)
- Girls who have psychological issues. For example - the type of girls whose major life decisions are based on mood swings.
- Girls who are pretentious. (And dumb)

In the first type, the girls facing such similar day-to-day problems get a little serious in life, and prefer an amount of seriousness from people who are close to them too. They relate themselves with people with an understanding of their problems (which they hardly share). Now, such type has another two types. One type of this category is the suicidal types, for example: girls, who cut their wrists, try to commit suicide but never make it, hurt themselves because they like experiencing physical pain. The second type of this category goes into books. They are smarter and hence adopt a creative way to let out their inner feelings. They go into music, or write dark poems, or write stories but always focus on the dark side of mankind, and it is easily noticeable. These both types of girls never fall for the beauty of love, as they are, in their own way, seeking answers, and I am not saying that they won't fall into a relationship; of course they would, but the relationships won't last for long.