Saturday 17 August 2013

What do older women want from men

The last age group consists of girls that are above 22 years of age. But before I proceed, I want to make something clear to every guy. This is one of the biggest problems with guys when they are sharing or going to share some space with girls who are 22 years old or above. Many guys tend to lose their confidence when they are engaging themselves with women of such age group.

The basic ideology behind this behaviour is they think that the girl would be either too smart or
too mature or expecting too much from a guy because she is too smart & mature. They start relating the stats of a female mind with her age, and it’s a very widespread phenomenon. But I don’t think that’s even biologically true, because if it is, then every girl will possess mental abilities like finding cure for cancer by the time she is 50. The facts that can be undertaken are:
- She might have read too much, and could be a thought provoking person.
- She might have a group of very smart friends who would judge me.
- Her life can be very complicated.
These examples are possible outcomes that at least sound plausible.
Note: Such problems exist in only men’s brains. Women never relate a guy’s intelligence, smartness or the amount of maturity with his age. Some girls do have a thing for older guys, but that has a totally different reason. Women relate a guy’s intelligence by the way he speaks – his diction, the words, and every element combined.
A woman’s situation in this age group is not so different from her previous recent years except for a few things:
- She is now relaxed about the idea of love; but love is still a vital part of fulfilment in her life.
- They are a little more experienced about men and their types. Most of men’s basic flirting techniques are evident and useless on them.
- A portion of women develop a distinct taste in men. They have their own types, and this is very different from the definitions they once had about the perfect guy for them.
- A portion of women get inclined towards marriage, some end up getting married really soon and some a little while with their respective lovers.
- At some point, they seek a long lasting relationship which has a meaning, mostly. But of course exceptions are always there.
What do they want?
The wants of women from this age group are very wide, and sometimes bizarrely inexplicable. They are also as simple as finding an insurance plan and getting married; and sometimes, becoming much complicated after marriage. But this book is strictly restricted to the before marriage era only. In the relationship prospect, the wants of women from this group are not too different from their previous wants. The only change is that the idea of love completely changes into the idea of stability.
Always remember: By stability, I am never referring to money only. I mean the adequate amount of income, sanity, behaviour, comfort, love, and a future.By this time, stability in her life becomes primary, and love becomes secondary; and these two things often conflict resulting to problems among majority of couples above the age of 22.

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