How to be good friend with a girl without wasting time

I have a simple question to ask you: What does normally everyone do? There are two decent and general situations in which a guy becomes friends with a girl:
- In real life through school/ college/ workplace.
- Through virtual networking sites on the internet.

But the similarities in both the cases are in abundance. In social networking sites, people get added in their profiles, and are being called as friends; but the truth is they are never actually good friends yet. Here are a few things what guys do after adding a girl they want to befriend:
- They message her different remarks about the way she looks, which most of the times are superfluous, highly overrated, pampering, and sleazy too.
Note: Don’t remark about someone’s beauty unless you are a fine art student or a painter. The thing is I am not doubting that she’d feel bad or anything negative about your comments; but my focus is all about the words. You cannot describe a painting the way a painter or a critic would, and because you cannot write they way they would write about a beautiful painting, don’t ruin it for yourself! Don’t comment or message her stuff like- ‘You look so beautiful/ cute/ innocent.’
- They repeatedly message a Hi or Hello, or many a times some piece of poetry that wouldn’t even make any sense for her as what to reply.
- They comment on her status messages, comments that are totally unnecessary and would get you no where!
Note: I am not saying that these things don’t work, of course they are going to work if one does them consistently and the girl hasn’t deleted him yet; he might get a ‘Hi or hello or thanks’ from her, which is of course one of the exceptional cases because the girl is very polite. But in this entire book, I haven’t and I am not talking about the exceptional cases; I am only talking about the majority of cases which would be, to assume, more than ninety percent.