How to get a girl on Facebook?
Here are a few things what guys do after adding a girl they want to befriend:
- They message her different remarks about the way she looks, which most of the times are
superfluous, highly overrated, pampering, and sleazy too.
Note: Don’t remark about someone’s beauty unless you are a fine art student or a painter. The thing is I am not doubting that she’d feel bad or anything negative about your comments; but my focus is all about the words. You cannot describe a painting the way a painter or a critic would, and because you cannot write they way they would write about a beautiful painting, don’t ruin it for yourself! Don’t comment or message her stuff like- ‘You look so beautiful/ cute/ innocent.’
- They repeatedly message a Hi or Hello, or many a times some piece of poetry that wouldn’t even make any sense for her as what to reply.
- They comment on her status messages, comments that are totally unnecessary and would get you no where!
Note: I am not saying that these things don’t work, of course they are going to work if one does them consistently and the girl hasn’t deleted him yet; he might get a ‘Hi or hello or thanks’ from her, which is of course one of the exceptional cases because the girl is very polite. But in this entire book, I haven’t and I am not talking about the exceptional cases; I am only talking about the majority of cases which would be, to assume, more than ninety percent.
What to do and how to find a solution?
The first thing that you need to do is show her a purpose; show her that there is a purpose which is why you have added or wanted to befriend her; and by doing that you erase the idea from her mind that you sent her a friend request randomly.
- You show her that you are an able man. (It’s psychological)
- You get a reply immediately because no other guy has done it before.
What should be the purpose?
Always remember: Your purpose is just a pretext in tricking her to talking to you. It is not an actual purpose, something like a business proposition or work you need her participation with. So be creative, imaginative, and make something up. It can be anything as little as- ‘Hey, I am a musician, and I need people, good listeners such as you, to comment on my music’. Those of you who are not musicians might think that this doesn’t apply to them, but again, it’s only a pretext. Go to any music site, there are a thousand people uploading their music videos covering established songs everyday; download one good acoustic track and sent it to her. This is just one random example. You can find countless of creative things to use as pretexts. After doing this, you get into the terms of talking to her faster than anybody who has ever added her randomly. You use the same pretext for your initial chats too, in which you suddenly pretend to have found such a great person accidently; you request her to keep in touch by the means of mails/ messages from time to time.
What do you message/ mail her?
From here on, you become the most curious person in the world, you ask her everything about her life that you possibly can. And be assured because a girl loves to answer questions regarding her life. But you never ask her direct questions like- ‘Do you have a boyfriend?’ you ask her about the idea of love that she carries. If she is too philosophical and unrealistic, she is single. You never ask her one question, you make a list in which at least five questions should be random and entertaining. They can be anything from movies, music to what interests her the most!
- What do you think about love?
- What’s your favorite band’s name? or musician?
- When was the last time you cried?
- What do you want to do in your life? (Get into philosophical questions)
- What’s your favorite color? Does a guy sound gay if he says it is purple?
- Do you have a pet? If you have to buy one, would that be the one that bites or scratches?
For more questions:
List of topics you can message!List II
And so on, your questions have to be about extracting as well as entertaining. Later on, you ask questions from her answers. The reason behind asking a girl questions through mails/ messages is that girls generally don’t start chatting with guys they have randomly added. They might chat with you only once or twice. So, in order to have a conversation, because that is what you need to do to become her good friend, you exchange mails/ messages which require answers, indirectly having all the long conversations which you are unable to directly.
Note: Try to be consistent; you don’t want to be losing this away by lazing it around. The secret behind writing her mails is that you are trapping her into a routine; and the day she’ll realize that, she’d be used to the habit of writing you or reading your mails in a pattern. And if she likes reading your mails/ messages, and you continue to be decent, maximum number of girls doesn’t hesitate in exchanging their numbers.
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