How to attract a girl in your school college workplace

Now for those who have met the girl in school/ college/ workplace, always remember that with a girl, the tendency of often the unexpected to occur is very high. So don’t waste your time being an underdog and waiting for the right chance. Your pause can be a lifetime ‘Thank you’ for some
other guy. In this case, what you should mostly seek for is one good conversation. You can take help from previous chapters, but it’s not about the first conversation or any conversation; it’s about the one perfect conversation in which you have to turn the tables, in a good way. Now when you know that you get just one conversation to make the ultimate effect on her, won’t you prepare yourself for it?

Note: It can be telephonic, electronic chat, or face to face. You can try the mailing/ messaging method by adding the girl on the internet.

The one conversation

This particular method is to teach you how to become good friends quickly, so the basic assumption that you have already befriended the girl.
Always remember: Being quick-witted is the height of genius, but at the same time cracking dumb or untimed jokes is one of the biggest turn off. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you need to possess a very good sense of humor; cracking jokes at the right time is important.

Here are a few examples of small talks:

(Talk about her friends)
Guy: Who is your best friend?
Expected answers-
Girl I: I don’t have a best friend, but I have many good friends
Girl II: (She’ll say the name of her best friend)
Girl III: I don’t have any friends.

Guy to Girl I: So what are their names? And are they from your class?
Guy to Girl II: oh awesome! That means you have many friends, but one friend who knows all your secrets. What does she do?
Guy to Girl III: So there is no person in this world who knows what is going in your head? Okay! What if one day you meet with an accident and lose your memory; how do you plan to recover it then?

When you talk to a girl and it is going to be a long conversation, it is obvious that the conversation has to revolve around other people. If you don’t share any mutual friends, then it’s a boon because you have whole new stories to hear. The more you talk, the more pleasant it is; but the things you should remember are:
- Don’t criticize anyone
- Joke as much as you can, but don't lose the direction of the conversation.
- Let's say you are very creative, and you creatively engage her with your humor and story-telling, but when it's over, Do remember to bring her back to the point again.

(You can be direct with above-mentioned conversation too)

Guy: Tell me about that friend of yours. I have noticed her looking outside the window during the class, I think she has an interest in flies. Just Kidding.

(Making fun of the third person (female friend) is important because you don't want to give an idea that you might be interested in her and that's why you are asking, even though you just wanna strike a conversation.