The first thing that you need to do is show her a purpose; show her that there is a purpose which is why you have added or wanted to befriend her; and by doing that you erase the idea from her mind that you sent her a friend request randomly.
- You show her that you are an able man. (It’s psychological)
- You get a reply immediately because no other guy has done it before.
What should be the purpose?
Always remember: Your purpose is just a pretext in tricking her to talking to you. It is not an actual purpose, something like a business proposition or work you need her participation with. So be creative, imaginative, and make something up. It can be anything as little as- ‘Hey, I am a musician, and I need people, good listeners such as you, to comment on my music’. Those of you who are not musicians might think that this doesn’t apply to them, but again, it’s only a pretext. Go to any music site, there are a thousand people uploading their music videos covering established songs everyday; download one good acoustic track and sent it to her. This is just one random example. You can find countless of creative things to use as pretexts. After doing this, you get into the terms of talking to her faster than anybody who has ever added her randomly. You use the same pretext for your initial chats too, in which you suddenly pretend to have found such a great person accidentally; you request her to keep in touch by the means of mails/ messages from time to time.
What do you message/ mail her?
From here on, you become the most curious person in the world, you ask her everything about her life that you possibly can. And be assured because a girl loves to answer questions regarding her life. But you never ask her direct questions like- ‘Do you have a boyfriend?’ you ask her about the idea of love that she carries. If she is too philosophical and unrealistic, she is single. You never ask her one question, you make a list in which at least five questions should be random and entertaining. They can be anything from movies, music to what interests her the most!
- What do you think about love?
- What’s your favorite band’s name? or musician?
- When was the last time you cried?
- What do you want to do in your life? (Get into philosophical questions)
- What’s your favorite color? Does a guy sound gay if he says it is purple?
- Do you have a pet? If you have to buy one, would that be the one that bites or scratches?
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